Akukho mntu uthanda ukuziva uphantsi kwiindawo zokulahla kwaye akukho nto ihamba ngendlela yabo, kodwa ukuziva ngaloo ndlela kuhlala kungaphepheki. Kuba singabantu nje, siya kuthi, ebomini bethu bonke, sihambe ngamahla ndinyuka anokubangela ukuba lusizi kuthi. Nokuba kungenxa yesigameko, umothuko, umntu, imeko-inokubangela ukuba imeko yethu yonke itshintshe. Elona candelo lokuziva sidandathekile kukuba kunzima kuthi ukuba sabelane ngeemvakalelo zethu nabo basingqongileyo, nokuba bazama ukubakhona ukusixhasa. Kuba siziva ngathi abanako ukusiqonda, senza ukuba amaxesha asele embi eve kakubi kakhulu kuba kufuneka sijongane neemfazwe zethu sisodwa.
Senze ingqokelela yeekowuti ezizama ukuveza indlela oziva udandathekile unokuba ngayo. Ezi zinokusetyenziselwa wena ukubonisa usizi lwakho kwabanye, ukuze ufumane intuthuzelo kwaye uzive ungaphantsi wedwa, okanye ubonise umntu omthandayo ukuba uyayiqonda into abajamelana nayo kumgangatho wabo. Ukuba ukwindawo enzima ngengqondo, ukuzifunda kunokukunika inkampani njengoko usiya kumaxesha anzima.
Iingcaphuno eziMdaka ngobomi
Iimuvi ezinje ngee-shades ezingama-50 ezingwevu
Ukuqonda kunye nokuba novelwano ngayo nayiphi na imeko kunokwenza ukuba uzive ungoyiki kakhulu. Ezi ngcaphuno ziya kukunceda kuloo nto. Ayibalulekanga nje ukuba ufumane ngokwenyani into ohamba kuyo, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukwamkela ubomi njengoko bunjalo, ubunzima, ulonwabo kunye nayo yonke into ephakathi. Ukuziva uphantsi ayisiyonto imnandi ukuyenza kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla kwaye kunokonakalisa elona xesha lonwabisayo ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Izinto eziqhelekileyo eziza kuzisa uncumo ebusweni bakho okanye iziqhulo ezinokuthi zihlekise kakhulu-ungasenazo ezo zinto zixabisekileyo. Xa izinto ziqala ukuphulukana nexabiso, yonke into ilahlekelwa yintsingiselo, kunye nexabiso lakho ebomini linokubuzwa. Lo loop sisihogo esibi kwaye unokugcina ungagungqi kangangeminyaka.
- Uxinzelelo luxoka. Ikuxelela ukuba usoloko uziva ngale ndlela, kwaye uya kuhlala uziva njalo. Kodwa awukwenzi, kwaye ngekhe. -Halley Cornell
Nangona usenokuziva ngathi uziva ngendlela ethile ixesha elide njengoko unokukhumbula, kuya kufuneka ubengumntu wakho okrelekrele xa kufikwa ekuzixeleleni ukuba kwakukhona ngaphambili, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubakho emva.
- Akukho saqhwithi, nditsho nobomi bakho, obunokuhlala ngonaphakade. Uqhwithela luyadlula nje. -Iyanla Vanzant
Akukho nto isisigxina, ngakumbi xa kufikwa kwizinto ezimbi. Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho into ebhetele ukuba ulinde kwikona, ke khumbula ukuba nomonde.
- Ndicinga ukuba abona bantu badanileyo bahlala bezama konke okusemandleni abo ukonwabisa abantu kuba bayazi ukuba kunjani ukuziva ungaxabisekanga kwaye abafuni ukuba omnye umntu azive enjalo. -Robin Williams
Ukuba ungumntu owenza abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho bahleke, kunokuba nzima kubo ukuba babone ngaphaya kwembono yabo ngawe njengomntu odlamkileyo kuba ubenza bonwabe. Oku ayilotyala lakhe nabani na, kwaye kufuneka uyamkele loo nto kwaye ube neqhayiya ngokwazi kwakho ukubeka uncumo ebusweni babo.
- Izinto ziyatshintsha. Kwaye abahlobo bahamba. Ubomi abupheli kuye nabani na.
- Ukuphefumla kunzima. Xa ulila kakhulu, kukwenza uqaphele ukuba ukuphefumla kunzima.
- Awunakuzikhusela kabuhlungu ngaphandle kokuzikhusela kulonwabo.
- Iinyembezi zivela entliziyweni hayi kwingqondo.
- Ukuba uzive kakhulu kukugqibela ungaziva nto.
- Abantu bahlala bendixelela ukuba ubomi buyaqhubeka, kodwa kum yeyona nto ibuhlungu.
- Kubuhlungu xa umntu omaziyo eba ngumntu omaziyo.
- Ayisoze imvula ientyatyambo: xa sifuna ukuba neentyatyambo ezininzi, kufuneka silime iirhasi ezininzi.
- Ubomi abunyanzelekanga ukuba basinike esikulindeleyo.
- Inye into ongenakuyifihla - kuxa ukhubazekile ngaphakathi.
Iingcaphuno malunga nokuhlala kweMzabalazo
Ubomi abuyongqengqelo yeeroses kwaye ayisayi kuhlala igudile, ingeyiyo yakho, okanye mna okanye omnye umntu ebomini. Nangona kunjalo ubomi bezezimali bunokuba, okanye ekuhlaleni, ukuba uziva uphoxekile, ungcatshiwe okanye uneentloni, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba kuya kuba ngcono. Zonke iimeko ezakha zaziva ngathi ziyaya ezantsi ngokuqinisekileyo ngenye imini ziya kunyuka. Akukho mntu unamathele emngxunyeni omnyama osisigxina, nokuba ungabonakala ngathi unjalo. Ukuzabalaza kwindlela yakho ephezulu kuya kukufundisa imigaqo yokuziphatha ekufuneka ulungile, kwaye kwixesha elizayo xa uziva uzive ulahlekile kwaye ulahlekile kwaye ungenathemba, uya kujonga emva kwaye ulikhumbule eli xesha. Ebumnyameni, ukufumana ukukhanya akuyondlwan 'iyanetha, kodwa kufanelekile ngumzamo owenzayo.
- Iinyembezi zivela entliziyweni hayi kwingqondo. -Leonardo da Vinci
Iimvakalelo zihlala zinokuphazamisa nathi kwaye zisenze singakwazi ukufikelela kuzo. Oku akubangelwa kukucinga okanye ukuhlalutya kodwa kungenxa yokuba intliziyo kunye neemvakalelo azinakho ukuqonda okulusizi.
- Okukhona ubona kwaye wamkela inyani, kokukhona uya kuziqonda kwaye uzithande. -Maxime iLagacé
Ukuba uyakwazi ukuqonda inyani emva kwezinto ezininzi, kubandakanya wena, kunokuba lula ukwamkela okuhle nokubi.
- Indoda nganye inezinto zayo ezifihlakeleyo ezingaziwa lihlabathi, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi sibiza indoda ebandayo xa ilusizi kuphela - uHenry Wadsworth Longfellow
Ukuba umntu akazi ukuba umntu othile unxunguphele, kulula ukucinga ukuba bakhohlakele okanye abanako ukunxibelelana naye. Ingxaki yokwenyani, nangona kunjalo, inzima kakhulu.
Ukudandatheka kwaye Yedwa
Ukuziva ulusizi kunye nokulahla inkunkuma kunokuba kubi kakhulu xa ujikelezwe ngabantu. Oku kunokubonakala ngathi kuyaphikisana, kodwa eneneni, uvakalelo lokuba abanye ngandlela thile bonwabile kwaye, okubi ngakumbi kunoko, ukungaboni kwimizabalazo yakho kuya kukwenza uzive ulilolo kwaye ulusizi. Isizungu kunye noxinzelelo zihlala zihamba kunye, enye ibangela ukuba enye ingakushiyi. Ubanjelwe kwezo zinto zingathandekiyo, ikamva linokubonakala limfiliba kwaye lodwa. Nangona kude kuye kuthi ga ngoku ukuba nabani na ukhe waphupha okanye wathemba, kunenzuzo yayo yokuba uxhomekeke kuwe. Kwaye xa ufuna kakhulu, kuyacaca ukuba uya kuba lapho ukulungiselela wena. Ukukhula ube ngumntu onokuthenjwa kuhlala kuqala ukuba ubekho ngokwakho kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu kwaye ubonakalise naxa ungaziva ngathi.
- Xa ujikelezwe ngabo bonke aba bantu, kunokuba nesizungu kunokuba wedwa. Unokuba kwisihlwele esikhulu, kodwa ukuba awuziva ngathi ungathemba nabani na okanye uthethe naye nabani na, uziva ngathi uwedwa ngokwenene.
Ukuba wedwa kwaye ulusizi kunokwenza izinto ziziva zibi kakhulu kwaye zingathuthuzeleki. Ukuba abo bakungqongileyo abakuniki ukhuseleko oludingayo-kunzima ngenene ukumelana nesiqu sakho.
- Uthi 'udandathekile' - yonke into endiyibonayo kukuqina. Uvumelekile ukuba uzive ungalunganga kwaye ungaphandle ngaphakathi. Ayithethi ukuba unesiphene- kuthetha nje ukuba ungumntu- UDavid Mitchell
Uxinzelelo ayisiyo mpazamo okanye mpazamo, kwaye inokwenzeka nakwezona zibalaseleyo kuthi. Ngapha koko, abanye babantu abaphumeleleyo nabakrelekrele baye baxela ukuba banokudakumba ngexesha elithile ebomini babo. Oku kubonisa ukuba ayisiyonto iphosakeleyo, kodwa endaweni yoko yinto yomntu.
- Ukudakumba yeyona nto ingathandekiyo endakha ndadibana nayo ... Ukungabikho kwethemba.
Ukudakumba kunokukwenza uzive ngathi akukho themba ngekamva elingcono. Oku kunokukhathaza ngokwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo kwaye kukushiye uzive udinwe kakhulu yiyo yonke into kwaye ungakhuthazeki ukwenza nantoni na entsha.
- Zimbini izinto ezinokubakho: nokuba sisedwa kwindalo iphela okanye asiyiyo. Zombini ezoyikeka ngokulinganayo.
- Khumbula: elona xesha ulilolo lelona xesha ufuna ukuba ube wedwa. Isigqebelo senkohlakalo sobomi.
- Umculo waba yindawo yam yokusabela. Ndingakhasa kwisithuba esiphakathi kwamanqaku kwaye ndijiye umva ndedwa.
- Ukuba wedwa kulungile kodwa udinga umntu oza kukuxelela ukuba wedwa kulungile.
- Ukuba unesizungu xa uwedwa, unabantu ababi.
Iingcaphuno eziLusizi ngothando kunye nosapho
Imikhwa ihlala ibaleka nzulu xa ibangelwa zezona sizithanda kakhulu ezintliziyweni zethu. Oku kunokuthetha ukuba ubalulekile, utyumke, abazali bakho, abantakwenu okanye abantwana bakho. Ukuphilisa la manxeba kungathatha ixesha elide, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ubudlelwane obusisiseko kwaye uhlale wonwabile kunye.
- Kungcono ukuthanda kunye nokulahleka kunokuba ungazange uthande konke konke. -USamuel Butler
Ngamanye amaxesha unokuziva ukuba uthando luyinkcitho enkulu yexesha lakho kunye nomzamo kwaye uxinzelelo olukushiye kulo lwenza yonke into ibe lize. Kodwa enyanisweni, ukunxibelelana nomntu ngokuqinisekileyo kuvule amehlo akho kwizinto ezininzi kwaye kukwenze umntu ongcono.
- Mhlawumbi sonke sinobumnyama ngaphakathi kuthi, kwaye abanye bethu bangcono ekujonganeni nabo kunabanye. -UJasmine Warga
Kuyenzeka kakhulu ukuba wonke umntu adandatheke ngandlela thile okanye enye. Abanye abayazi nje okanye abayibonisi. Ke, ungaze uzive ngathi uwedwa okanye unengxaki. Ingxaki kubo bonke ubuntu.
- Ukuphilisa ngumsebenzi wangaphakathi. -Ugqirha BJ Palmer
Ukufumana ngaphezulu kwento eshiye intliziyo yakho ikhathazekile okanye uxinezelekile akunakuncediswa ngumntu ongaphandle. Kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba ungene ngaphakathi kwaye uhlalutye into onokuyenza ukuze uzilungise.
- Uthando lungamandla angalawulekiyo. Xa sizama ukuyilawula, iyasitshabalalisa. Xa sizama ukuyifaka entolongweni, iyasikhobokisa. Xa sizama ukuyiqonda, isishiya siziva silahlekile kwaye sididekile. -U-Paul Coelho
Ngaphezulu kokuhlalutya nantoni na, kubandakanya uthando, kunokusishiya sophukile kwaye sisodwa. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ulahle ithemba okanye uyeke ukuzama.
- Intsapho eyonwabileyo izulu langaphambili.
- Ukonwaba kukuba nosapho olukhulu, olunothando, olukhathalayo nolusondeleleneyo kwesinye isixeko.
- Ndiyaluthanda usapho lwam kuba bahlala bekho kum nakwezona zihlandlo zam zibuthathaka.
- Yintoni ongayenza ukukhuthaza uxolo lwehlabathi? Yiya ekhaya uthande usapho lwakho.
- Usapho kulapho ubomi buqala khona kwaye nothando alupheli.
- Eyona nto ibalulekileyo emhlabeni lusapho kunye nothando.
- Usapho aluyonto ibalulekileyo. Yinto yonke.
- Ndizomeleza ngothando losapho.
- Awukhethi usapho lwakho. Basisipho sikaThixo kuwe, njengokuba unjalo kubo.
- Ezinye izinto zinokusitshintsha, kodwa siqala size siphele nosapho.
Iingcaphuno zokudakumba malunga nentliziyo eyaphukileyo
Xa umntu esimthandayo, simnqula kwaye simxabisa esishiya okanye esivisa ubuhlungu - ubuhlungu abuthelekeleli. Ingathi senzakaliswe yinxalenye yethu, kwaye iziva ingenakuphikiswa. Kuyafuneka, ngala maxesha ukukhumbula ukuba iintlungu ezibuhlungu ziyaphela kancinci, ngaphandle kwazo naziphi na ezinye izinto - ixesha liya kukunceda ubuyise ubuntu bakho obudala, kodwa bomelele.
- Ubumnandi bothando buhlala okomzuzwana. Intlungu yothando ihlala ubomi bonke. -UBette Davis
Nokuba iinkumbulo ezimnandi, xa ziphelile okanye zingasekho yinxalenye yobomi bakho, zinokubangela iintlungu; oku kungongeza kobuhlungu bakho njengemvakalelo yengqumbo- ude uqonde ukuba ukukhula kukwathetha ukukuyeka.
- Ndandihlala ndiyazi ukuba ukujonga emva kwiinyembezi kuya kundenza ndihleke, kodwa andizange ndiyazi ukuba ukujonga emva ekuhlekeni kuya kundenza ndilile. -Gqirha Seuss
Sigqiba ngokulula ukuba xa sicinga ngamaxesha amabi, ngenye imini kwikamva kuya kuphinda kulunge. Into esisilelayo ukuyiqonda kukuba ngamanye amaxesha xa izinto zisiya emazantsi, amaxesha amnandi anokusinika iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ebesingacingi ukuba zinokuhambelana nenkumbulo entle.
- Ukuba noxinzelelo kukuziphatha kakubi kunye nawe. -Emily Dotterer
Ukugqitha kwintlungu ozibanga yona inokuba yenye yezona mpi zinkulu kodwa zibaluleke kakhulu oya kuze uzilwe. Ukuphelisa ubuthi linyathelo lokuqala lokuphuma kule ntlungu yengqondo.
- Awusoze wazi ukuba wonakaliswe kangakanani umntu de uzame ukubathanda.
Kanye njengokuba umthanda umntu, imivumbo yabo ibonakala ngathi inokuphiliswa kwaye kutheni ibangelwa ngabo, ngokufanayo ube nemfesane nawe, kwaye emva kokuqonda intlungu yakho, zama ukuzinika inkxaso oyifunayo ukuze uphile kuyo yiyo.
Iingcaphuno ezibuhlungu malunga neentlungu kunye nokungaqondwa kakuhle
Intlungu yokungaqondakali indalo yonke. Sivamise ukuziva ngathi siyinxalenye yoluntu olungasifumaniyo ukuba singobani okanye siphinde sihlangane neenqobo zethu. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kunzima kakhulu ukuziva ukuba uviwe okanye uyathandwa- nokuba akunjalo ngokwenyani. Ukuthanda umntu ngendlela engeyiyo kuya kuziva kukude kakhulu ekuthuthuzeleni ngamanye amaxesha. Ukungabinako ukunxibelelana ngokwenyani nabanye abantu kwinqanaba leemvakalelo emva kokwabelana kakhulu nabo kunokwenza uzive ngathi ulahlekelwa kukubamba kubudlelwane bakho bemihla ngemihla kwaye ngokungathi uya kushiyeka wedwa xa nabo bekubona oko.
Nangona kunjalo, abo bakuthanda ngokwenene kwaye bakukhathalele baya kuhlala nkqu naxa amaxesha esiba nzima. Ngokwenyani, amaxesha anzima angangqina ukuba luvavanyo olukhulu lwe-litmus oluxelela kakhulu abantu abakhathalele impilo yakho kunye nokuba sempilweni kwaye bafuna ukukubona uphumelela, nokuba banokuzincama ngenxa yakho. Olu luhlobo lwabantu onokuxhomekeka kubo ubomi bakho bonke, kwaye baya kuhlala benendawo ekhethekileyo ebomini bakho engenakuze ithathelwe indawo.
Ixesha le-2 lokukhululwa
- Kwaye ndaziva ingathi intliziyo yam yaphuke kakuhle kwaye ayinakuphikiswa ukuba kungaze kubekho luvuyo lwenene kwakhona, ukuze ekugqibeleni kubekho ulwaneliseko oluncinci. Wonke umntu wayefuna ukuba ndifumane uncedo ndibuye ndibuyelane nobomi, ndiqokelele amaqhekeza ndiqhubeke, kwaye ndizamile, bendifuna, kodwa bendimele nje ndilale eludakeni ndibhinqe iingalo zam, amehlo evaliwe, ndibuhlungu ndide ndingalali Akufuneki ndiphinde. -U-Anne Lamott
Ukuziva ngathi akukho kuphuncuka ekuphelelweni lithemba kobomi kwaye intshabalalo ezayo ihlala ihambelana negama elixinezelekileyo. Kucacile ukuba nokuba umntu oxinezelekileyo ufuna ukwenza into, kunzima kakhulu ukufumana amandla okanye inkuthazo yokuphuma uyokufumana.
- Ndicinga ngokufa kodwa andifuni kufa. Nokuba kufutshane. Ngapha koko, ingxaki yam ichasene ngokupheleleyo. Ndifuna ukuphila, ndifuna ukubaleka. Ndiziva ndibanjiwe kwaye ndikruqukile kunye ne-claustrophobic. Kuninzi kakhulu ukubona kwaye kuninzi ukwenza kodwa ngandlela thile ndisazifumana ndingenzi kwanto. Ndiselapha kule bubble yobomi kwaye andinakukwazi ncam ukuba yintoni le ndiyenzayo okanye ndiphume njani kuyo.
Ukuziva ubanjisiwe kulusu lwakho lolona hlobo loxinzelelo uninzi lwabantu abathi banalo. Ngapha koko, banomdla kwiindlela ezininzi zokubuyela ebomini njengoko babekade beyazi kwaye bekhona ngokukhululekileyo. Ukuziva ubanjiwe kwaye ungabinakho ukubaleka okanye ufumane indlela yokuphuma lelona candelo lisezantsi lengqondo.
Iingcaphuno malunga nokungazi ukuba kutheni
Ukuba buhlungu ngokwako kubi; ukungazi isizathu kubi kakhulu. Khawufane ucinge xa uxelela abahlobo bakho okanye usapho ukuba wenzakele, kodwa awukwazi ukukhomba apho. Kukwanjalo ukuba uziva udandathekile kodwa ungakwazi ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni ebangela oko. Inokuba sisiganeko esikhulu okanye into encinci ebangele uninzi lwengozi evaliweyo kuwe. Izinto zokudideka zinokukhokelela kwisiphumo se-snowball sosizi kwaye uzive uxinezeleke kakhulu. Ezi zinto zinokubangela ukuba ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokuzihlonela kufike phantsi.
Oku kubi kakhulu kwiinjongo zexesha elide kunye namaphupha onawo ngokwakho kwaye unokude udibanise nobudlelwane bexesha elizayo ongekaziphonononga. Oku kunokunciphisa ukubanakho kwakho kwaye kukunike into engenamsebenzi, kwaye kukutyhalele uye kude emngxunyeni womvundla wokuziva udandathekile kwaye ulusizi.
- Olona hlobo lusizi alunako ukucacisa ukuba kutheni.
Ukwabelana ngosizi lwakho kwenza eyona nto uyiqondayo kuphela xa usazi imvelaphi yayo. Ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba uloyiko lwakho luvela phi, akunakwenzeka ukuba wabelane nabantu abakungqongileyo. Inokukwenza uzive usisiyatha ukwenza njalo ngaphandle kwesizathu esibambekayo sokuthetha ngayo.
- Ayenzeki yonke ngaxeshanye, uyazi? Ulahlekelwa sisiqwenga apha. Ulahlekelwa sisiqwenga apho. Uyatyibilika, ukhubeke uze ulungelelanise indlela obambelela ngayo. Iziqwenga ezimbalwa ziyawa. Kwenzeka kancinci, awuziqondi nokuba wophukile… de ube sele ukhona. -Ubabalo Durbin
Uxinzelelo alwenzeki ngobusuku obunye. Ngapha koko, yenye yezona zinto zibuhlungu ngokuthe ngcembe eziya kuthi ngokuthe chu zize kuwe zikushiye uziva ulahlekelwe kakhulu xa ungalindelanga.
- Kufana nokuba kwisinyusi seglasi embindini wevenkile enabantu abaninzi; ubona yonke into kwaye ungathanda ukujoyina, kodwa umnyango awuyi kuvuleka ukuze ungakwazi. -Lisa Moore Sherman
Nangona uyazi ukuba kukho abantu abakungqongileyo abaqhubeka nobomi babo, abanye othetha nabo, abanye obajongileyo kuphela - kunzima xa uthelekisa ubomi bakho nobabo kwaye uzikhathaze.
- Amanye awona mazwi athuthuzelayo kwindalo iphela ‘ndim nam.’ Ngalo mzuzu xa ufumanisa ukuba umzabalazo wakho ngumzabalazo womnye umntu, awuwedwa, kwaye abanye bebehla ngendlela enye.
Xa omnye umntu esixelela ukuba abaphulaphuli nje kuphela ubunzima bethu kodwa banxulumene nabo, isiqabu asichazeki. Isenza sizive ngathi sele sivile ekugqibeleni kwaye asisasodwa ke nakumaxesha ethu anzima.
Iingcaphuno eziya kuphakamisa ukudakumba kwakho
Kubaluleke kakhulu kwelona xesha limnyama ukukhumbula ukuba kukho ukukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela. Kwangokunjalo, xa uziva uphantsi kwaye unxunguphele, kuyanceda ukukhumbula ukuba nakweyona nto imbi ebomini bakho, kukho okuhle okuzayo. Wonke umntu onyukayo kufuneka ehle, kwaye kungenjalo kuyinyani ngokunjalo. Ke, musa ukuphelelwa lithemba! Inkuthazo oyifunayo ukuze uphume kumaxesha anzima ayikude ukuba ujonga nje. Ngumbuzo nje wokuba ufuna ukuzinceda kangakanani.
Nangona abanye abantu banokukuxhasa ngala maxesha, abanakukwazi ukuphuma kubo baye kuwe. Ukuba ubuyimfama, ubunokwazi ukuba nentonga kuphela; ulindele ukuba omnye umntu akuphakamise kwaye ahambe ujikeleze yonke imizuzu yobomi bakho yinto ehlekisayo. Ngokufanayo, usizi kungabelwana ngalo ngovelwano. Kodwa ukuqonda ukuba nguwe wedwa umsindisi wakho kuya kwenza umahluko omkhulu ekuphulukaneni kwakho neli nqanaba loyikekayo kwaye likutyhalele ukuba uzabalaze nzima ukufikelela elunxwemeni. Qhubeka uqhubeke, nokuba amaza omoya arhabaxa.
- Ubomi ngama-10 eepesenti kumava akho kwaye amashumi alithoba eepesenti kwindlela ophendula ngayo kuwo. -UDorothy M. Neddermeyer
Ngaphezulu kwamava ohamba kuwo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqonde kwaye ulungise indlela ophendula ngayo kwiimeko eziza kuwe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ulunge ekuchongeni nasekuphenduleni kuyo nayiphi na into ephoswa bubomi bakho.
- Impilo yengqondo… ayisiyiyo indawo ekuyiwa kuyo, kodwa yinkqubo. Imalunga nendlela oqhuba ngayo, hayi apho uya khona. -Noam Shpancer
Akunakulindeleka ukuba ube sempilweni yengqondo ngokuzinzileyo ngobusuku obunye. Njengokuba ukuwa kungabikho kwangoko, kwaye nokunyuka kungabuyanga. Umonde lolona phawu lubalaseleyo.
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- Ufana nesibhakabhaka esingwevu. Umhle, nangona ungafuni ukuba njalo. -UJasmine Warga
Ngamanye amaxesha sizicingela kakhulu, kodwa naxa sisezantsi, siyathandwa kwaye sithandwa kunokuba sizinika ityala. Ke musa ukuzivumela uphoxeke. Ngumba nje wexesha de ubeyinto yonke owake waphupha ngayo.
Njalo khumbula ukuba ukuziva udandathekile akufani nokudakumba, ingxaki enkulu kakhulu yempilo yengqondo. Ukuba uziva ngathi wena okanye umntu omthandayo utshona kude kakhulu kwaye unengxaki yokufumana indlela yokubuyela elunxwemeni, kungcono ufumane ingcali ukuze ikuncede. Oku kuyasebenza ukuba uneengcinga zokuzibulala. Awuwedwa; ubuncinci, unabo kunye nabo bakungqongileyo abakuthandayo nabakukhathaleleyo abafuna ukonwaba nyhani.
Siyathemba ukuba olu qokelelo lungentla lukuncede ukuba ufumane intuthuzelo okanye indlela yokunxibelelana nabanye abantu kwaye uzive ngathi awuwedwa kwimizabalazo yakho. Hayi namhlanje, kodwa nangalo naluphi na usuku- ngaphandle kobudala, isini okanye ubuhlanga, baninzi kakhulu abantu kwihlabathi liphela abaya kukuhambelana nawe ukuba ufikelela nje kwaye ujonga-jonga. Ngokufanayo, soloko uqinisekisa ukuba ubakhona abanye abantu kubunzulu bemizabalazo yabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo oku akufuneki kube kubangelwa lulonwabo lwakho, nangona kwaye kuya kufuneka kuxhomekeke kowakho owona mqobo.
